Our first bridal fair was very interesting. IT was more of a meeting with a wedding planner to talk about wedding in Okinawa. We learned a lot from this meeting. 1. Lately, there is a tendency to book a location 1 year or even two years in advance. 2. Cost of wedding in Okinawa. 3. Procedure of having wedding in general. And… a lot of things. M and I were too excited that we wanted to tell my mom of what we found and…. well my mom got into a huge fight. About a week ago when we announced my parents for permission to get married, I wasn’t there but they told M to take it slow and think carefully about future before planning to get married. So my mom was upset that we had a detailed information of wedding. Fight went on for about 2-3 hours and.. M was upset and confused…. so even though the meeting with wedding planner went well… My mom also pointed out to us that not all relatives might make it and asking them to come all the way is too much cause it cost money… and you know what… I was really upset that she suddenly brought it out because she is the one who had mentioned about having a wedding in Okinawa and invite relatives. In the last night’s discussion, she suddenly changed her mind and said… oh I only met parents and grandparents… I just wanted to say WHAT! My fight wedding fight was not with M but with my mom. I feel that M and I may not fight over our wedding plan but… we would have a hard time with my mom. So… that was really hard night.